In the same way, I need to practice conferring.
Then I asked Lukas to write for a bit before we conferred.
I would love to tell you to watch this video as a perfect example of conferring, but I can't do that! I can tell you that it was a really good exercise for me to walk through the writing conference with my son and to then go back and watch myself.
Here's what I noticed:
1. Conferring can be awkward--especially when it's new for both the student and the teacher. We had the parent-child element going on, as well, but Lukas hasn't experienced very many writing conferences (with a focus on the writer and not the writing) so this was new for him, too.
2. I needed my notes. I definitely will put my record-keeping binder to good use!
3. I should have focused on ONE teaching point. Instead, I showed him how to make revisions AND I asked him to stretch the small moments by adding details.
4. I need to keep the conference brief!
So, I will continue to practice. And as I practice, I hope that I will continue to learn how to be a successful coach during the writing conference.